***She Already Knew—a series on women who were formed before they were faithful.

On Jael, the blessing we can't explain, and the God who judges what we cannot

Most blessed of women be Jael, the wife of Heber the Kenite; most blessed of women in tents. (Judges 5:24)

I used to teach this passage with far more certainty than I have today. I think that’s the point. Because we can’t be certain where Scripture is quiet.

On one hand, the blessing is real. On the other, so are the questions.

We’ll start where Scripture starts: with honor.

Deborah was the prophet and judge leading Israel at the time. She said to Barak, Israel’s military commander, that this battle would be won by Israel and that credit would go to a woman. Jael was that woman.

She was a Kenite and wife of Heber, who had moved into enemy territory, where Sisera commanded the army. Heber made a treaty with the Canaanite king to live peacefully in the area. As a tentmaker, Heber would have had an economic and political relationship with power figures there, and Sisera’s army were likely customers.

So we enter this scene with Jael, the tentmaker’s wife who greeted the Canaanite commander. Sisera’s army had been at war with Israel, and when God routed his army, Sisera left on foot.

He went to Jael’s tent. I used to think Jael was savvy for recognizing him, but I now understand that it is more likely she knew him as an associate of her husband’s.

She invited him in, told him not to be afraid, and covered him. When he asked for water, she gave him milk, which would facilitate sleep for the depleted soldier.

Then she took the moment. She picked up the tent peg and hammer. She had one shot.

Not only did she strike accurately, she struck powerfully—right through the temple and into the ground.

The text records her act without commentary, but Scripture’s silence here is not approval. It’s an invitation to sit with the discomfort.

But being used by God is not the same as being endorsed by God.

God used her. Yes. But being used by God is not the same as being endorsed by God. And the text makes clear that it is God—not Jael, or even Deborah or Barak—who subdued Jabin, the Canaanite king. Jael struck. God finished it.

The fruit of Jael’s act was Israel’s deliverance, but judging the act by the fruit alone is dangerous ground.

I used to teach this story with certainty. I even wanted to name a ministry after her tent peg, viewing her as someone who trained in the ordinary for the extraordinary. That resonated as a stay-at-home mom on behalf of so many in unseen vocations.

I still value that, but what has changed is the question I now ask around it. How we act matters as much as that we act. Boldness and courage are not in themselves honorable if the act itself is not of God.

Her story is not a blueprint. It’s a mirror.

It’s a mirror to consider whether our lives reflect what Micah says the Lord requires of us: to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly before God. Outcomes don’t justify actions to the contrary. Good intentions don’t either. The standard runs deeper than both.

I think about a time I was wronged, and the person responsible got away with it. Everything in me wanted justice, and I didn’t get it. A few months later I rear-ended someone in my car and hoped they’d let it go. And they did. I saw that whether I wanted justice or mercy depended on which side of it I was on. Scripture doesn’t allow that kind of selective application. God calls us to love both, to live in the tension rather than choose what benefits us.

That’s the uncomfortable gift that Jael’s story gives us. She answers to God. Her motives and her means, all of it. And so do we.

His justice and mercy don’t lead us to fear, but to humility. In humility we recognize that we please him when we come to him in the righteousness of Christ. That is our righteousness. We can desire justice and mercy equally because they are part of our identity in him, and only he makes it possible to live this way.

We don’t know Jael’s thoughts, what God may have said to her in the silence of that tent. But we know what he requires of us.

Act justly. Love mercy. Walk humbly.

Start there. Every time.

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