Spiritual formation is about being changed from the inside out. In Christianity, it means the Holy Spirit works in us to make us more like Jesus on the inside, and that change shows up in how we live and act on the outside. This process is centered on Jesus and can't be achieved by our own strength; it happens when we let the Spirit do the work in us. For more on this, see: Renovation of the Heart by Dallas Willard.

Though it is often thought of as physical actions, this really has more to do with things like friendship, trust, and compassion. It's about truly knowing someone and being known by them. Communicating with compassion helps build this kind of connection, because it leads to better understanding and brings peace between people. For more on this, see How God Changes Your Brain by Andrew Newberg and Mark Robert Waldman.

At the heart of every person is a longing to be fully known and to deeply know someone else. You can see it even in a newborn baby who seeks connection. But fear, guilt, and shame often cause us to hide our true selves. Finding a safe community where we can truly know and be known by others helps us heal and become whole. For more on this, see Anatomy of the Soul by Curt Thompson.

Both mentors and coaches aim to help others discover their answers and reach their full potential. Coaches take a more structured approach, helping individuals set goals and find their own path through self-reflection and accountability. Mentors, however, share their own stories and experiences to guide others in finding their solutions, often offering advice based on their journey. In RWH mentoring, there's also the expectation that the Holy Spirit is actively working in the life of the person being mentored.

No problem at all! If you are outside the greater Sacramento area, you are welcome to participate via Zoom. The cohort year begins and concludes with an in-person retreat, which we highly recommend. However, if attending in person isn't possible, we would be happy to discuss how you can join us virtually.

My core beliefs center on the Trinity—Father, Son, and Spirit—who exist eternally in perfect unity and love. God created humans to join in this love and enjoy Him forever. The Son, Jesus, took on a human body, lived a perfect life, died an innocent death, and rose again to conquer death and sin. By placing our faith in Jesus for the forgiveness of sins, we are restored to a relationship with the Father, through the Son, empowered by the Spirit. We receive a new identity as God's children and are invited to share in His life, love, and mission. Please see the following for the fundamentals:

1) The Nicene Creed

2) Apostles' Creed

Not at all! In fact, we encourage you to share the insights and growth you gain from mentoring with your communities, both within and beyond the church. Our hope is that you will experience a deeper connection with God, yourself, and others, and that your life will reflect the courage of a devoted member of the Body of Christ. We envision you spreading His love to your local church, community, and even to the farthest corners of the world.

Yes. Kami is an ordained minister and abides the same rules of confidentiality as any pastor.

• In 1:1 mentoring, as with any pastoral situation, Kami respects your need for confidentiality.

• In group settings, it is explicitly understood that the group is a safe place to share—what is said in the group stays in the group.

Yes, there is a minimal cost to join a cohort While Kami does not seek to gain financially, there are costs to run this ministry. That said, don't let finances become a barrier. If you are unable to pay, let's talk. On the flip side, if you would like to make a contribution to help someone else attend, please see our "Give" page.